Unexplainable Things #6

The Unexplainable #6


First, I would like to apologize for my absence. I promise I will do better, life just gets ahold of us sometimes. I need to establish a set time for my blog :). I miss a lot of you and enjoy sharing my world, views, and crazy life with you all. So I figured what better way to come back with an “UNEXPLAINABLE” …hehe.. 


I bring you another “Fysh” moment. I thought I learned a lot about boys with my first son. Boy, was I wrong! My two boys couldn’t be any more different from one another. I learn something new everyday, this is why I this category exists in the first place. I love to share these moments with you all in hopes to bring a smile to your face! Also, it’s a great way to document these moments for the undetermined future. I seem to be so forgetful lately and its scares me lol!! Anyways lets get right to it!!!!



So this phrase is above my boys bathroom toilet!! Lol However, they sometimes seem to be rule breakers! So Fysh usually doesn’t shit the bathroom door all the way when it’s just me and him at home. Occasionally, I will walk by and happen to catch him in my peripheral vision wiping the set down. Well, the other day I walk by his bathroom and I here Fysh loudly say to me, “It’s okay momma, I got this, I’m cleaning it all up”

So I open the door and go in there to find him on his tippy toes reaching up as far as he can to wipe 4ft above the toilet attempting to clean up his pee pee on the wall. I couldn’t believe me eyes!! Furthermore, I didn’t understand how that is even possible. LOL! Needless to say I helped him and together we got everything cleaned up and back to normal. I’ll will never understand this, nor will I ever receive a good explanation besides they are just boys! lol  

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Spring Fever Confession

Confession: I have a case of Spring Fever…..Badly…

Some of you might have noticed I haven’t been to active in the blogging world lately.

Well your right…. I have had Spring Fever….. 



Not to mention the entire house , except me has been battling the flu the last few weeks. It was awful and I’m so glad my babies are all better. Although here has been a lot going on lately, I don’t want to forget my purpose for this blog….To help others shine!! So with Spring approaching, I figured I would share a little sunshine with everyone. There is light at the end of the tunnel and Vitamin D is within reach 🙂 


Here are some of my favorite Spring time Ideas I have found on Pinterest that I love ❤








Note- Most of my inspirations from this post came from Pinterest ….

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Unexplainable Things #5

My Dad

Happy Monday everyone!!! 

I have been trying hard lately to come up with a post. My mind has been so busy on other things going on. I started school, and it’s taken up a bit of time for me. But don’t get me wrong…..I love it!!! Anyways, before I get off track…..MY DAD …. He is completely UNEXPLAINABLE. I know you may be a little confused it you read my last post. Well what I mean is, this is my dad who raised me. Yes, he’s my step dad, but he’s my dad! With that being said, he was the first thing to come to mind for an UNEXPLAINABLE post! I have been thinking about him a lot lately because of Valentines day right around the corner. When I think of Valentines day….. I think of him! My dad is not a sensitive person, nor does he ever do ANYTHING sweet on his own. Well, that all changes on Valentines day…… My dad goes out of his way EVERY year to get me, my mom, and sister something special. I always look forward to Valentines day because of this. There is never a year that I’m without a Valentine! Thanks dad, I love you!!! 

Pleaseeeee don’t be upset with me for putting you on the “INTERNET” lol 😉

My mom tells everyone our family puts the DYS in DYSfunctional 

I like to think we just put the FUN in dysFUNctional!!!

So here goes……. Meet my Unexplainable Dad!!!!



Unexplainable Things about my dad……. Enjoy!!!

  1.  He has no idea what social media is…. I don’t even think he’s ever turned on a   computer in his life…

     2.  He refers to all social media —“The Internet”— And he hates his picture taken because he’s afraid I will put him on “The Internet” — LITTLE DOES HE KNOW 🙂 HEHE….


     3. My dad think’s he’s still in Southern California, not in Kentucky.. He wears shorts and t-shirts with flip fops every weekend, even when its 10 degrees outside…LoL


    4. The majority of pictures I take of him, he is either flipping the camera off and sticking his tongue out. 

    5.  He is a sucker for tiny dogs!!!


  6. He loves when he is right, and loves to be the center of attention… Did I mention, He is always right!!! Check out this video of his reaction when his horse won the      Kentucky Derby last year!!


     7. My dad can smell Ants!!! Who smells ANTSS?!!?! My dad!!! lol

        8. He can’t see to write, so he wears super thick glasses.. 


  9. My dad makes the best Cheers!!!!!


10. He takes his music very seriously….

 11. My dad is terrified of insects. He once threw my brother out of the house once because a lizard crawled on him.

I won’t go on.. lol

Seeeeee…. He’s Crazy and Unexplainable.. But I love you dad!! I know you won’t see this and I hope mom doesn’t show you lol. Thank you for being the best dad to me ever… I am who I am today because of you… Happy Valentines day dad! Love you!!!!!!



I hope this could bring you a little laugh for the day… As it did me!!!

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Dear Lost Dad,

Dear lost Dad,


               I write this letter to tell you thank you! Thank you for not being a part of my life. I want you to know that I’m not bitter about all my birthdays, and Christmases without you. I wouldn’t be the woman nor mother I am today if you had been there. I try my best at everything I do. I have learned family is the most important part of living and that’s my number one focus. I also focus on positivity and happiness. I value these traits about myself, and if you had been there, I might not have these outlooks as I do now. I have learned that life is a learning process but also, a gift.  Maybe you just never learned these things? I am sorry for you. I also want you to know I am doing well and I don’t hate you. I am grateful for you, you gave me life. Without you, I might not appreciate the importance of my family and friends. I would do anything in this world for my friends and family. I give my heart to these people I’m close to. Some would say this leaves room for heartache and maybe it does, but I would rather experience heartache than not experience love at all. Although I have endured plenty of heartache, I wouldn’t change any of it, because this is also a part of what makes me, me. You made the decision to not be a part of my life, and I have made the decision to forgive you. I believe life throws us curve balls and problems every day, some enormous, and some minute, but it’s how we overcome these issues that make us who we are. I write this letter not only in hopes it reaches you, but for everyone else who has a parent that isn’t present. When I was young, I didn’t understand and felt that it was my fault. Now I understand. It was never my fault, it was always yours, and that’s okay. I am not saying I’m perfect, in fact I’m far from perfect. I make mistakes often, but I make sure I learn from mine. For all of you in the current situation, you’re not alone. Thank you, dad, for not being my dad.




Please share if you have been in this situation or know someone in this situation. You’re not alone and it’s not your fault. A lot of things go unnoticed in today’s world with so much craziness going on around us. I didn’t write this just for him or myself, but for everyone else too. There is light at the end of the tunnel and it is possible to overcome the heartache felt from an absent parent.


A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle. -James Keller

I have reached ONE HUNDRED followers!!!!


Thank you so much to all my followers/friends I have been lucky enough to meet!! I hope you all have enjoyed my posts as much as I have enjoyed yours!

Most importantly I hope my page can bring a little happiness and sunshine your way… 



You all have brought me mucho sunshine on this gloomy Monday!!!!!


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